I posted a mini-post about Rachel and Drew yesterday, which you can see here. I also posted a picture-post, which you can see here. So this post you're reading is the final one!
We got connected through a mutual friend named Laura Ann. All four of us—me, Laura Ann, Rachel, and Drew—went to Samford (well, I still go to Samford). I knew that Rachel had been in Samford's great books program a few years ahead of me, and we're also in the same sorority (and had the same position as house manager! holla). Also, Drew and I were in the same honors society, and we carried leftover bagels to the SGA office together one time. Which I'm sure he remembers.
But when I reached their apartment on Thursday, the three of us figured out (yes, this story is going somewhere, surprise) the craziest connection: Rachel and Drew and I went to Italy together in January 2016.
Guys. I had been 5139 miles away from Samford with these people for three weeks, and we didn't figure it out till I was in their apartment in D.C a year and a half later.
How did that happen? Well, technically our trips had different excursions. But we stayed in the same hotels and had the same time off and all the professors were friends and both trips were small numbers of Samford people, so it's still weird that we didn't know we were there together.
Rachel has been living in D.C. for about a year. She had an internship here last fall and was offered a job at that company in January. She and Drew got married June 4th, and he moved to D.C. soon after.
Below is a picture of their apartment, where Rachel's been living since earlier this year. For the first week or two that she lived here, before her dad and Drew drove up with her furniture, the apartment was empty. Picture that room (and the kitchen and bedroom) with nothing but an air mattress, her clothes, a casserole dish, and a bowl. One bowl.
When Drew and her dad arrived with furniture, she'd made them dinner in her one casserole pan, so they sat on the empty floor and shared the food our of one bowl. It's a random story, but it made me laugh. And now it looks like this! Probably at least two bowls now! (jk there were plenty.)
Anyway, their apartment is fully functional, unlike those first two weeks, and it was darling.
Well, it was fully functional till I dropped in. Here's the living room normally (so cute!):
And here's the living room with a guest. Still cute! Actually, so so cute. Look at my little bed! I was so excited when I saw it. But I did laugh, because Rachel and Drew let a stranger take up a few dozen of their apartment's few hundred square feet.
When I said back in April that I wanted to visit everywhere, and meet everyone, I meant it. But I am only half of the equation. The other half is the home, the people who have to scoot their stuff over and find extra clean towels and take into account another human stepping into their world.
I didn't know if anyone would respond. People did, clearly, and I've been so thankful for each shadow location so far. But Rachel and Drew submission was different. They're the youngest people I've shadowed so far. They have the least amount of space. And when you have less of a thing, it takes more of your heart in order to give something away. Like that story in the Bible, where the widow who shared one Oreo gave more in Jesus' eyes than the rich people with dozens of Torah-themed sugar cookies (message version, sorry). I think when there's less physical stuff in your life to give from, then there's something in your spirit that really does the giving.
And that was the case with Rachel and Drew. They worked around the inconvenience that was me for three days, digging up extra Metro cards, making me an air-mattress bed, offering me coffee and cereal and brunch with their friends.
And it was amazing! Because they're amazing. And the gift was even sweeter, because it was trickier to give. Hospitable, kind, generous—Rachel and Drew.